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less than 55 days?
Posted by Qi...
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19:19
Damn it! Thanks for the nice reminder
Cruel fact.
Heard this long ago.
I choose to ignore.
I choose to challenge the calculation.
Since we have more than 20 years left(hopefully),
how could it be only 55 days?
But after denial stage you had to move on to acceptance
You are away from home
You don't go back frequently
Even if you are home
You don't necessarily spend time with them
You got gathering
Computer is still your best friend
Bed at home is so comfortable that you don't feel like wake up
How much time do you actually spend together with your parents?
I actually mean together
which exclude the time you spend with your computer at the same living room with them
If you do the calculation correctly,
you will have the sense of urgency
It is actually not much
Then, you wonder
how are you going to spend time with them
They don't like to go out or shopping,
They don't watch movie and travel make them tired
You don't like to listen to stories happened decades ago or health tips
Our way of spending time don't overlap much
I guess I need this book ><
Or help to cook, flower the plant etc
or just sit by their side and listen
Give them a hug
Do something with heart
Honestly their level of expectancy is so low
that you find it effortless to make them smile
Simple than what you think
Haha, I think I can write a book too.
Wait till I try QQ version of 55 ways to spend time with your parents first =)
Having awareness is the first step toward achieving something
Cheers
I miss mum and knock knock at 8am with someone forcing you to drink whole glass of lemon